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Wednesday, January 1, 2025

Closing out a tough-at-times 2024 and heading toward 2025 with dread and anxiety

We closed out a somewhat rough 2024 with the unexpected loss of our young, beautiful boy cat, Byron; and then, Andrew, the husband of our friend, Emily; and now moving on with dread as another term under "that idiot" as the leader of our country will begin.  Let's miss those we've lost and hope for the best, I guess.  

You know it's been a down year when one of the things you get most excited about is a new kitty litter that you've found, but this stuff is worth the praise.  No smell, no concrete clumping, no dust.  It's the best thing to come down the line in a long, long time!!   We even got Paige and Andy a "starter" bag for Christmas since it's such a game-changer! 


Saturday, December 14 - This year's Christmas party - Succ It for Santa!!  - was a big success with a half-dozen attendees making beautiful succulent Christmas trees thanks to a great set-up by the Classy Cactus Farm - another brilliant idea by Ashlee.  The rest of us meandered in an out of the house all evening with drinks in hand (there was an eggnog tasting as well), good conversation and laughs at the ready.  Great BBQ and party snacks and even a "hundred-dollar cake" from Ina Garten for a late-night after-party dessert.  It was so moist and delicious!!  

We say every year this will be our last one and then we have such a good time we forget all the hard work to pull it together and start planning the next one!! 


Here are our six succulent Christmas tree crafters...and Danny being a doofus. 


Tuesday, December 17 - After a very nice work Christmas party hosted by my Admissions Department at Cumberland University tonight at Sammy B's, we strolled the grounds of the beautiful and historic Mitchell House here in town enjoying the excellent Christmas light display.  Big props to our current mayor, Rick Bell, for really pushing to make Lebanon a nice town to be a part of now because that has not always been the case here. 


After a few more poses around
the grounds of the Mitchell House (photo above), we got in some comfier clothes, picked up Sunny and headed over to the Wilson County Fairgrounds to enjoy a drive through The Dancing Lights of Christmas display once again.  It is now the state's largest drive-thru light and music show.   


12/21 - Well, the UT game stunk as they got roasted by OSU, but the atmosphere where we watched the slaughter was nice at least.  My new work friend, Todd, and his wife, Kelly, invited us over to their new townhome here in Lebanon to hang out and watch the game along with a few other folks they know.  It was a nice time with good food, libations and conversation (about anything but UT football!). 


12/22 - We finally got to visit Working Man Winery here in town for their 
Pup Pics with Santa event this afternoon.  It was a bit of hectic situation since the location is kind of small.  We had some decent Asian snacks from a food truck on site and a glass each of their wine that was OK at best.  With limited parking and so-so wine, I am not sure this place will make it through 2025, but we shall see. 


We did get some good pics with 
a pretty authentic-looking Santa and Sunny behaved very well considering it was her first time seeing The Big Man in person. 


Monday, December 23 - We exchanged presents today before heading to Chattanooga tomorrow with the family.  Games are always on the gift list seems like and I got two this year and Ashlee got this one pictured above - kind of a Jenga with challenges on some of the blocks as well.  We were impressed with this being our tallest tower before collapse.  


Tuesday, December 24 - Our first Christmas Eve on Mowbray Mountain!! 
Paige and Andy's new house is great and so is the drive, cutting about 20 minutes or so off our commute from Lebanon.  We stopped for gas on the way down, and I bought a MegaMillions lottery ticket that was hovering at $1 billion, but, alas, we only got one number out of five woeful picks.  But nobody else won either!  So, we move on to over a billion on Friday's drawing.  Wish us luck!!

(Editor's note:  There was no luck for us, but someone out in California hit it.  Good for them!) 


Wednesday, December 25 - Merry Christmas!!  No, Ashlee didn't get yet another pet from Santa this year (thank goodness), but Sebastian here is a new acquirement for the Harlins and he's a sweetie.  Oh, and he's over 25 years old!  So, "Parks and Rec" stole the name from him!!  It was a lovely and mild Christmas Day, and we enjoyed spending a lot of it outside on Pagie and Andy's great new property.  


Friday, December 27 - We went to a matinee showing of the new Bob Dylan biopic, A Complete Unknown, today with our new couple friends, Todd and Kelly, at our local Roxy Theaters (recliners!).  The film was very good.  There's no way Chalamet doesn't get at least an Oscar nomination, if not a win, with this one. 
This evening, we attended the yearly Mug Club Dinner at Cedar City Brewing Company here in town along with our other local couple friends, Curtis and Kate.  The nacho bar menu was good as was the camaraderie.  These folks are a blessing to Lebanon. 


Saturday, December 28 - 
We finally made it out to a (belated) Christmas Pop-Up today at Nicky's Coal Fired Pizza over in West Nashville.  "Saint Nicky's" theme this year was The North Pole, and it was pretty terrific (photo above) We had a tasty early dinner with our friends, Wendy and Charley, as well as a couple of Christmas-themed cocktails.   This is a place worth coming back to not only at Christmas, but anytime! 
 

Sunday, December 29 - We stumbled upon info kind of last minute for a big Cat Show at The Nashville Fairgrounds this weekend, so we had to go check it out.  It was pretty cool with tons of competing cats in several categories from all over the country and even an agility test for those that wanted to participate.  It was hosted by the national CFA (Cat Fanciers' Association); which seems to be kind of a big deal for fancy cat owners. 

Sunny came with us, but had to stay in the car for the cat show for obvious reasons, but we included her in our next stop nearby at Fait La Force Brewing where we waited out the rain with a couple libations and a tasty lunch of homemade pimento cheese with crackers and a tasty chicken pesto sandwich that we split from Jambox Sandwich Shop which is also at the brewery's location. 


The
 Sun(ny)day Funday continued with our next stop being the rooftop bar of the chic Bobby Hotel where their Camp Bobby pop-up winter fun spot was happening again this year.   Dogs are allowed up here, so Sunny got her first-ever elevator ride and was higher of the ground (unknowingly) than she'd ever been before.  We enjoyed a couple more winter-camp-themed libations, took some fun pics and with the weather improving, we moved on again.  


Our last and final stop today was at the brand-new Urban Dog Bar in West Nashville.  Similar to the one in Chattanooga that we (Sunny most of all) enjoy, this one is bigger and very well organized and maintained.  We got a day pass for Sunny and our entry was free.  The beautiful sunset brought on some cooler temps, but they have outdoor heaters and warm libations for the "hooo-mens" to stay warm with while the doggies of all shapes and sizes romp around having a fun time.  Let's just say that Sunny slept very well when we got home from this fun day in Nashville.  


Tuesday, December 31 - Happy New Year (hopefully)!  
We had dinner tonight at Chauhan Ale and Masala House with our friends, Emily, Danny and Brenda.  This excellent Indian restaurant with some Southern U.S. flair seemed to be the perfect place for us and Danny and Brenda to look ahead to our big cruise planned at the end of the 2025 to India and some other Far East destinations.   The food was great, as always.  I had the garlic shrimp, and Ashlee had the lamb chops both with their decadent korma sauce.  We headed back home before the midnight hour and celebrated the new year on the couch with pets and that's good enough!