WORDS TO LIVE BY...

"To strive, to seek, to find and not to yield"
- Alfred Lord Tennyson, 1833

"live deep and suck out all the marrow of life"
- Henry David Thoreau, 1845

"Some guys, they just give up living
And start dying little by little, piece by piece
Some guys come home from work and wash up,
And go racin' in the streets"
- Bruce Springsteen, 1977

"...to the heart, there's no time for you to waste.
You won't find your precious answers now
by staying in one place"
- Frank Turner, 2009

"The best things in life aren't things
They're living and breathing"
- Michael Franti , 2011

"Well, this world is ours while we are in it
Grab a hold of my hand
And we can take it
Together, our lives are just one passing minute
It could be gold, if we make it"
- Jay Buchanan, 2012

"We've got these times of our lives
Let's take this time to let it show
'cause these are ours.
These are ours!"
-Justin Furstenfeld, of Blue October 2013

"I owned every second that this world could give,
I saw so many places, the things that I did"
- Ryan Tedder of OneRepublic, 2014

"No cash in the bank, no paid holidays
All we have, all we have is
Gas in the tank, maps for the getaway
All we have, all we have is time"
- Andrew McMahon in the Wilderness, 2014



Days go by, Get out and see the world, Days go by, Get out and see the world with your own eyes - Brett Dennen 2021

All written content and photos by Rob Fulfer unless otherwise indicated.

Sunday, March 1, 2015

2015...off an running

2015 got off to a quick start for us with a couple of separate trips including Ashlee going on a Caribbean cruise with a co-worker of hers and some other ladies; and a quick jaunt back out to Las Vegas for me, plus a chance to see Linkin Park again up close at the Bridgestone Arena.  Of course, we also found time to do some things together throughout January and February:

Good shoot-twice seats in the 300 level with an all-you-can-eat option.  Yummm!!

Winnah! Winnah!
# 1 in the entire NHL
Thursday, 1/8 - We attended our first Nashville Predators game of the new year with a large group of friends including Wayne, Chris, Tarryn, Brenda, Danny, and Tom. We broke from our norm and sat in the 300 level but the kicker was it was all you can eat of your typical stadium food and also some delicious jambalaya.  It was a thrilling 3-2 win in OT over Dallas.  This win put Nashville in first place in all of the NHL!

Friday, 1/9 - Six of our eight-pack from the hockey game the previous night decided to have dinner tonight.  I suggested a return (for me and Ashlee) to The Sutler Saloon.  We stopped by here a few weeks ago just on a whim for a couple drinks and thought the place was very cool.  Since we had already eaten earlier that day, we vowed to come back and try the food. So here we be!  The food was very good.  Afterwards, we slipped downstairs to their unadvertised speak-easy-style bar for a couple drinks.  What a cool place!
 "Southern"-style pork rind nachos at The Sutler!
Thursday, 1/15:  We had dinner again at the amazing Lockeland Table in East Nashville tonight. This time it was with our friends, Sharon and Karen, and the meal was once more outstanding.

Tuesday, 1/27 - We enjoyed our first visit to the relatively new City Winery in downtown Nashville for dinner and a show tonight.  It's a beautiful venue with great food and good acoustics.  We saw The Ben Daniels Band accompanied by the famous actor (and Ben's dad), Jeff Daniels, who is also very talented musically, and, of course, quite funny.  We got the honor of meeting Mr. Daniels after the show as well.  He was very cordial and friendly (for a Yankee).
Just hangin' with "Will McAvoy" from "The Newsroom."
Thursday, 2/5 - We attended another Preds game tonight with our friends, Chris and Tarryn, and we were back in 1st place in the NHL and our All-Star goalie, Pekka Rinne, was back from injury, but despite these positives going in it was a disappointing 5-2 loss to the talented Anaheim Ducks.

Saturday, 2/7 - We checked out the Oscar-nominated short films (animated and live)  today at The Belcourt Theatre with our friends, Danny and Brenda.  Animation was first and they were pretty good (at least better than last year's batch of depressing nominees).  We had a break in between before the live action shorts and had a late lunch across the street at Jackson's which was delicious.  The gals killed another hour or so shopping while Danny and I grabbed a couple seats at a nearby sports bar to catch the Preds win yet another game.  We finished the day with the live action shorts which were a mixed bag with a couple pretty good ones and a couple of odd ones and one downright depressing one.

Thursday, 2/12 - Can't get enough of those weekday Preds home games (especially at $35 a seat in the lower bowl)! And we're still in first place in the entire NHL!  Five friends (Chris, Tarryn, Brenda, Danny and Bethany) joined us for tonight's game against the Winnipeg Jets which we won in solid fashion by a score of 3-1, further establishing that # 1 spot in the league!

Saturday, 2/14 - Happy Valentine's Day!!  We drove down to Chattanooga today and had a wonderful early dinner with Ashlee's mom, Evelyn, at Public House.

Saturday, 2/21 - An unexpected tragedy had us traveling to my boyhood town of Powell's Crossroads today for the funeral of a dear friend.  My friend from kindergarten and our friend for many, many years beyond that, Brian Griffith, passed away this past week from heart complications. Brian was a sweet, loving guy with always something funny to say.  This world won't be the same without him  Goodbye, dear friend, may you rest in peace.  We will miss you greatly.
This pre-collage flashback to happier times back on May 19, 2001, shows Brian (far left) as one of my groomsmen (and eligible bachelor) not even trying for the garter tossed by Ashlee on our wedding day.  He was probably afraid of spilling his beer.  That's our Brian.  Ashlee's then-coworker, Karen, saw her boyfriend (in the blue shirt) catch the garter and sure enough they were married soon after.  Another groomsman, our nephew, Matt, also make a valiant effort for the catch as well.
Sunday, 2/22 - It's that time of year again.  Time for us to attend the annual Oscars Party hosted by our friend, Brenda.
"Everything is awesome!" including our outfits for Brenda's Oscars Party as Wyldstyle and Emmet Brickowski from The LEGO Movie.  Ashlee got first place in the female costume contest, unlike the movie which we thought got a wrongful snubbing by the academy when it didn't get a "Best Animated Feature" nomination.
Thursday, 2/26 - We attended another Preds game tonight (still ranked # 1 in the NHL!) vs. the Minnesota Wild.  It was a close, but tough, 4-2 loss (the last Wild goal was an empty-netter).  And, yes, despite the loss, we are still # 1 in the rankings!
On a brighter note, we got to meet # 4, defenseman, Ryan Ellis, after the game.  Ryan was just back from an injury and we are happy to have him in the line-up again for the run to the playoffs.
They're just that darn good!
Saturday, 2/28 -  Tonight we attended the SOLD OUT debut of Drew Holcomb and the Neighbors as headliners at The Ryman,  The opener was Holly Williams, the grand-daughter of the great Hank Williams and daughter of Hank Jr.  She was pretty good.  Drew and the boys (and wife, Ellie, on a few numbers) gave us a just-about-perfect show.  This band was made for such a great venue and did the ol' girl proud.  Bo Rhinehart of NEEDTOBREATHE even came out for one song.  Drew's cover of Springsteen's "Thunder Road" was a stunner as well.  Our balcony second-row seats were excellent.  Dinner before at the always-delicious Suzy Wong's House of Yum made for an awesome Saturday night in downtown Nashville.

Friday, January 9, 2015

NEW YEAR'S IN NOLA

We picked yet another famous locale to ring in the 2015 New Year.  New Orleans is one of our favorite places and it seemed like an obvious choice.  And since we have been a few times already, we decided to enhance the trip by making it a literal "Planes, Trains and Automobiles" kind of endeavor.


Photo by Wayne Hutton.
December 31:  We switched the order around a bit from the movie title with the automobile coming first in the form of a one-way rental minivan taking us and four of our good friends (Wayne, Mike, Chris and Tarryn) from Nashville to Birmingham, Alabama.  From there we hopped our first-ever Amtrak commuter train for a 7-hour jaunt down to New Orleans.  We were a little skittish about the trip after seeing the rather run-down station in downtown Birmingham a month or so ago and while it wasn't very fancy (looks to be under renovation perhaps), we couldn't have been happier with the Amtrak Crescent train, the staff and our coach seats.  The train arrived on time and we boarded quickly and easily,  The staff did a great job of making sure our party of six could sit together since there weren't assigned seats.  The seats were comfy with lots of leg room and the ride was smooth and problem-free.  It was a very social atmosphere on-board with BYOB not being frowned upon. The time just flew by as we pushed through Mississippi and on into Louisiana with several quick stops along the way.  We even had dinner in the dining car which wasn't bad either.  What a great experience!  We hope to do it again soon ...maybe Memphis to Chicago?
Did I mention it was a social atmosphere?  Here's a pic of all of us along with our nearby seat-mates, a group of young professionals some of whom were also from the Nashville area.  That's the infamous Doug from Franklin in the middle.  No idea who the gal in the back is by the way.  Photo taken by a stranger.
It was a quick cab ride over from the much bigger, newer (and cleaner) New Orleans Amtrak station to our hotel, the awesome Place D'Armes in the French Quarter. We stayed here on our last trip to The Big Easy and even got the same room as before, good ol' # 308.  We took a quick stroll over to Bourbon Street and then rang in the New Year at Jackson Square with fireworks over Cafe Du Monde and even a fleur-de-lis drop high atop the Jax Brewing Building.



Jan. 1 - We slept in a good part of the first morning of the new year and then grabbed some NOLA-famous Hurricane drinks and rode the ferry across the Mississippi River to Algiers, but it was just too cold to explore the river walk they have there.  Maybe next time.  We had a late brunch at the busy Ole Saint Kitchen and Tap which is owned by former Ole Miss and New Orleans Saints' running back star, Deuce McCallister.

We booked this trip well before it was determined who would be playing in the Sugar Bowl (and the first-ever college football playoffs semifinal game).  It was a surprising upset by # 4 seed, Ohio State over # 1 seed, Alabama. We all watched the entire game in Wayne and Mike's amazingly huge room (# 222) and no one was happier with the outcome than our friend, Chris, who is a huge OSU fan.  The rest of us were happy with the bags of beignets from nearby Cafe Du Monde!

Jan. 2 - After an amazing early brunch at The Court of Two Sisters,we took an afternoon streetcar up to the end of the green line to City Park for some fun urban kayaking
We had a delightful two-our tour on the Bayou St. John Historic and Scenic Waterway.  This natural bayou was a key to the settlement of New Orleans and is today a nice blend of nature amid the urban sprawl of the city.
It was back aboard the streetcar after our tour which we squeezed in just before the rain set in.  "Fortune favors the bold." 
Our late dinner was super casual as we checked out the incredible Killer Po'Boys in the back of the tiny Erin Rose Bar.  All sandwiches were good, but the shrimp ones were outstanding.  Photo taken by a nice random guy.
We blew it out on our last night in NOLA up and down Bourbon Street with some activities that are probably best left unwritten on this blog, but that I am sure will be long remembered.

Jan. 3 - We flew back home today on a Southwest airplane. Our reasoning was two-fold.  First, the Amtrak trains back to Birmingham leave at 7 AM (no, thank you!), and secondly, a 7-hour train ride and a 3-hour drive back to Nashville doesn't sound appealing after several days of making good/bad life decisions in NOLA.  It was definitely the right choice.  The flight home was a little delayed due to weather, but we got home safe, sound and happy early that afternoon.

Here's to a great new year!!

Monday, January 5, 2015

NOVEMBER- and DECEMBERINGings

A couple months of fun and frolic leading up to the new year:

Weds., Nov. 5 - We went to a sneak-peek of Interstellar in IMAX with our friends, Casey and Wayne tonight.  What a tremendous film and an awe-inspiring experience!
Thursday, Nov. 6 - We drove down to down to Chattanooga today to catch a show by O/A/R at Track 29.  We had a tasty dinner and good beer beforehand at The Blind Squirrel. We scored a cheap room at the accompanying Chattanooga Choo Choo Hotel as well. We had the honor of meeting lead singer, Marc Roberge (second from right) out front of the venue while waiting on our friend, Deb, to arrive. We three and another friend of Deb's were able to get front row for the show since the place was only about half full since it was a weeknight, but it was a great show nonetheless and as usual with this awesome live band.
"She's as sweet as..Tupelo Honey" - Van Morrison.
Friday, Nov. 7 - We slept in  peacefully late, and  then got up for a great brunch at the new-to-Chattanooga location of Tupelo Honey Cafe, an Asheville-based favorite restaurant of ours.  This bustling new locale was just as good as the original.

Saturday, Nov. 15 - We had a great day of fun activities with an early showing of Birdman at Opry Mills. This was our viewing start of the Oscars season, and it's a little spacey of a film, but well-acted.   There could definitely be some nominations come from this one.   It was then on to the always-delicious O'Sake Sushi for an early dinner after that, and before another Nashville Predators game where we came from behind to defeat the Winnipeg Jets 2-1. We met our friends, Chris and Tarryn, and Danny and Brenda, between periods outside our sweet 200 level seats.  We all went for hot victory doughnuts after the game at the nearby downtown Krispy Kreme.  By the way, a lot of the this fun day was funded by the sale of some of the Titans season tickets that I won earlier in the year.  We haven't been to game yet this year (mostly because they stink), but the tickets have all been used by someone who got a good under-face-value deal on them from me.

Tuesday, Nov. 18 - My friend Mike and I drove up to Indianapolis today and met Ashlee (who had been working in nearby Kentucky) to watch our beloved Duke Blue Devils take on the Michigan State Spartans in an early-season Top 25 college basketball clash in the Champions Classic.  Duke scored a solid victory over a talented MSU team. We also got the chance to finally meet our friend, Jared, who lives in Indy and is an MSU graduate.  Jared has played in our fantasy football league for 15 years and joined as a complete stranger.  We've been Facebook friends for a little while now, so we knew what he looked like, but it was great to finally meet him in person.  The second game of the night was UK vs. Kansas which we didn't stick around for the entire game.  Good thing too because it became a blow-out for UK and their fans were numerous and loud.  We drove home the next day with a stop in Louisville where we met Ashlee again for lunch at the Bluegrass Brewing Company. (Editor's note:  Three of these four made it to the Final Four this season.  Sorry, Kansas. And our Duke boys went on to win their fifth National Championship!!)
Weds., Nov. 26 - Saturday, Nov. 29:  We've started a new Thanksgiving tradition of spending the holiday on the beach somewhere.  Last year it was on the East Coast south of St. Augustine, and this year it was Destin on the Gulf.  Ashlee and her mom, sister, brother-in-law, niece and a couple of their family friends drove down the Saturday before, but I worked a few days and then flew down via Southwest Airlines on one of their newest routes to Pensacola.  Ashlee picked me up and delivered me back to the sweet house they had rented just a few blocks off the beach.  The weather was mild and we enjoyed our time here with some good food, some nice long walks on the beach, and just hanging out and relaxing.

On our last  full day at the beach, we decided to take another helicopter ride.  We've been kind of addicted to these since our first two rides these past couple years.  Our 10-year-old niece, Ella, was brave enough to go with us and had a great time.  It was one of the best flights we've taken so far with our great pilot doing his best to get this most out of this little whirlybird.
A real unexpected treat while flying in the helicopter was spotting this pod of dolphins just off the beach.  What a thrill!
Below is a few seconds of the thrilling ride we took up and down the beaches of Destin, Florida.


Saturday, Nov. 29 - We drove back from the beach with Ashlee's mom, Evelyn, and split up the long drive with an overnight stop in Birmingham.   Our first stop in town was a late lunch/early dinner at the delicious Edgar's Bakery.   We could have easily made the drive in one day, but we were also spending the night to catch our favorite live band, Augustana, playing at The Workplay Theatre downtown.  We got a room a mile or so away at the beautiful and historic Tutwiler Hotel (a Hilton property now - points scored, check!).  Getting to and from the venue from the hotel was an interesting experience since our cabbie who picked us up had only been driving in Birmingham for two days and we had to help navigate him with our phones(?).  Cabs were non-existent after the show also and after hearing it would be a 20-minute wait when we called one, the owner of the venue himself (Tom, I think is his name) offered to drop us off, clearly miffed that his city would strand out-of-towners like this who took the time to come to his venue and whom I am sure he would like to come back.  And we will if the opportunity arises, it's a solid venue with a good beer list, nice sight lines and great acoustics.  After sleeping in, we had a great brunch late the next morning at Another Broken Egg Cafe.  It was so mild temperature-wise, we were even able to sit outside and enjoy our delicious breakfasts.  Not bad for the last day of November!
We got front row for the Augustana show thanks to a fairly sparse crowd for a Saturday night. The impressive English band, Scars on 45, opened and we really enjoyed their short set.  Dan Layus, the lead singer, founder and heart of Augustana gave another brilliant performance in our fourth time seeing him and his band this year.  Photo by Ashlee.


Saturday, December 13-We decided to throw a sort-of last minute Christmas Party and a nice large crowd of friends showed up for some great food prepared by Ashlee, lots of tasty libations and even a three-group gingerbread-house-decorating contest that kind of "wild" to say the least.  Let's just say some people (Wayne Hutton) will do anything to get a win.


Sunday, December 14 - We finally attended a Titans game this year despite having won season tickets and we still never sat in the seats we won, but we did get to see the cool banner of us (right) that has hung in the stadium all year.  Instead, we sat with our good friend, Wayne, in his season-ticket seats and Ashlee even joined in the fun of "Titans Clause" by being Mrs. Titans Clause this year.  These two were the hit of the day with tons of folks wanting pictures with them including the stadium staff who took them to the front of the line for the hilarious mock "Gameday" program cover (above left).  The game was another loss for the woeful Titans, but we had fun nonetheless.  Thanks to our friend, Bethany, for coming along as well.

Friday, Dec. 19 - We had an excellent dinner at Lockeland Table in East Nashville with our friends, John and Monique.  We moved on for drinks afterward at the very cool modern speakeasy, Bar No. 308.

Saturday, Dec. 20 - Afters stopping by our friend, Carolyn's annual Christmas party in Nashville, we headed over to the Mercy Lounge to catch Augustana play again (yep, that's the 5th time seeing them this year and a new record for us). Scars on 45 was the solid opener again and despite missing their female co-lead singer, Aimee, of the quintet, they still sounded great. The crowd was much bigger than the recent Saturday-night show we saw in Birmingham.  It was homecoming show for Augustana since they now all reside in Nashville.

Sunday, December 21 - We continued our research for the upcoming Oscars season with a viewing of "Wild" starring Reese Witherspoon. It was a solid film and followed the book closely, but Witherspoon was only decent at best in her leading role in our opinion.  We don't see them handing her the statue for this performance. Beforehand, to kill some time between another great dinner at Nama Sushi, we stopped for a couple drinks at Craft Brewed and The Sutler Saloon, a couple of cool new places now open on 8th Avenue.

Wednesday, Dec. 31 - Well, we are off to New Orleans today to ring in the new year.  See our next blog entry for the full details.


COLLAGE UPDATE

Welcome # 16 - 2014 was a fantastic year!!


Monday, November 3, 2014

OCTOBERings

The Mac and Cheese Wayniac
Saturday, October 4th - We attended the first-ever Mac and Cheese Festival here in Nashville today with our friends, Wayne and Mike on the grounds of the Opryland Hotel and Resort.  We definitely got full on some tasty mac-and-cheese varieties, but were glad we got in with a BOGO deal on the expensive tickets since the lines were pretty long for the small samples at each of the participant booths, and they ran out of the booze that was included in the price.  It was also a little "cheesy" in terms of entertainment with a dated (albeit spot-on) heavy metal cover band.  Afterwards, we all attended a showing of the psychological thriller, "Gone Girl" at the Opry Mills Theaters next door which was pretty good.

Thursday, October 9 - Tonight we attended the season-opener for the Nashville Predators vs. the Ottawa Senators with our friends, Chris and Tarryn. It was an exciting come from behind 3-2 win and the first ever for new head coach, Pete Laviolette.

Saturday, October 11 - Today we attended and helped out with the wedding of our friends, Lisa and Toney. It was a small, intimate event and the rainy day was a bit of a hamper, but overall it was a fun and joyous day for these two great people.  We even goofed around in another photo booth at the reception (photo left).

Thursday, October 24 - We attended another Nashville Predators game vs. the Chicago Blackhawks tonight.  It was a thrilling 3-2 win over this strong opponent with a natural hat trick (the first we've ever seen live) by the newly-acquired James Neal. It was sweet watching all those Chicago fans in the crowd hit the road with a loss.  Here's a bit of the post-hat trick celebration in the photo below:

Saturday, October 25 - Monday, October 27 - We took a long weekend ride up to East Tennessee to do a couple of fun things as well as stay a couple nights at a neat little cabin outside Gatlinburg.
We started the trip with a helicopter ride in Sevierville, TN.  After our first great ride last year in North Georgia, I got Ashlee another ride (via a Living Social deal) as a Christmas present.  We picked this particular weekend hoping to get a look at some fall colors.  This chopper was bigger than the first one we rode in, but just as exciting.

Part of Bluff Mountain at the edge of The Smokies as seen from the helicopter.
Another great helicopter view.  We missed the peak color weekend, but the weather couldn't have been clearer.
Our little cabin rental bordering the national park near Cosby, TN was just about perfect: clean and roomy with huge picture windows,right beside a rushing stream and  a small waterfall, a hot tub out on the deck on a quiet dead-end road.
http://www.homeaway.com/vacation-rental/p3470629 - Rushing Waters (and Laurelwood Falls) Cabins for future reference
Lovely Indian Camp Creek rushed right along the side of the cabin and over Laurelwood Falls just downstream.
We got up in the dark on Saturday morning and drove south through the national park to Bryson City, NC, to catch a 9 AM train ride.  On the way we saw a bear (Ashlee's first ever) and several elk.  No good photos of the critters, unfortunately, but the foggy morning made for a pretty cool vista as we drove.
The big, black diesel engine of The Smoky Mountain Railway  emerged from the fog as we boarded the Carolina Shine Car for a great ride as well as a few spirits from Midnight Moon Moonshine....it's 5 o'clock somewhere, right? 
The spooky oldest house in Swain County, North Carolina, looms in the early-morning fog as viewed from the train.
Speeding along the Carolina countryside on our way to the Nantahala Gorge.  Is that a moonshine look?

Beautiful arms of Fontana Lake were a big part of our view during the trip.
Incredible views from comfortable chairs with a little moonshine, snacks and a meal of BBQ.  What a deal!

We had an hour layover at The Nantahala Outdoor Center with the fog burned off and the fall colors busting out.

We flipped to the back of the train as the green diesel engine took over and pulled us back to Bryson City along Fontana Lake with The Smokies in the distance.
The drive back through the national park on the way back to the cabin was a stunning added bonus.
We spent our last relaxing night in the cabin enjoying some wine and a rousing game of Monopoly which I won by bankrupting the greedy Ashlee.
On Monday Ashlee did some work in East Tennessee as I tagged along as her "somewhat-assistant" since I had the day off from work.  We had a delicious lunch in lovely Greeneville, TN  at Fatz Cafe.  We stopped for dinner on the way home in Cookeville at the always-good Crawdaddies.

Friday, October 31 - Tonight we hosted the "Rob and Ashlee's No Damn Kids Halloween Party" which was basically just some beer and chili with our friends sans any kiddos other than some trick-or-treaters at the door.  We had a great time with some good company, some great food and a seven-card round of Cards Against Humanity that was hilarious.