WORDS TO LIVE BY...

"To strive, to seek, to find and not to yield"
- Alfred Lord Tennyson, 1833

"live deep and suck out all the marrow of life"
- Henry David Thoreau, 1845

"Some guys, they just give up living
And start dying little by little, piece by piece
Some guys come home from work and wash up,
And go racin' in the streets"
- Bruce Springsteen, 1977

"...to the heart, there's no time for you to waste.
You won't find your precious answers now
by staying in one place"
- Frank Turner, 2009

"The best things in life aren't things
They're living and breathing"
- Michael Franti , 2011

"Well, this world is ours while we are in it
Grab a hold of my hand
And we can take it
Together, our lives are just one passing minute
It could be gold, if we make it"
- Jay Buchanan, 2012

"We've got these times of our lives
Let's take this time to let it show
'cause these are ours.
These are ours!"
-Justin Furstenfeld, of Blue October 2013

"I owned every second that this world could give,
I saw so many places, the things that I did"
- Ryan Tedder of OneRepublic, 2014

"No cash in the bank, no paid holidays
All we have, all we have is
Gas in the tank, maps for the getaway
All we have, all we have is time"
- Andrew McMahon in the Wilderness, 2014



Days go by, Get out and see the world, Days go by, Get out and see the world with your own eyes - Brett Dennen 2021

All written content and photos by Rob Fulfer unless otherwise indicated.

Tuesday, May 26, 2026

Let's Do That Summer Thing Again!

 


Sunday, May 25 - We got home from our trip to the tropics only to find the tropics had invaded our back yard thanks to a lot of rain while we were gone.  Our two-year-old calla lily in the backyard by the patio was booming with blooms.  Top that, Costa Rica!! 


Monday, May 5 - Let's get our hungry, hungry hippo on! After only a day of rest from our trip, the super hostess with the mostest, Ashlee, dodged most of the forecasted rain to throw a darn good Childhood Games Partay today on Memorial Day.  It also served as a milestone birthday party for three of our friends: Brenda (60); Wendy (50) and Lisa (50).  It was a hoot and a holler with this giant version of human Hungry Hungry Hippos blown up in our backyard as the crowning achievement. 


We had great themed food (Sloppy Joes, Hamburger Helper and Beanie Weenies), cakes for all three birthday girls and tons of throwback candy.  Note that these no longer say "cigarette" on them. 


Monday, April 13, 2026

A Quarter Century of Marital...Pura Vida!!


This month we celebrate our 25th Wedding Anniversary!!  


Saturday, May 2 - 
We went and saw the new Michael Jackson biopic, Michael, tonight at the fancy brand new Hooky Entertainment Complex in downtown's also-new Nashville Yards along with our friends, Todd, Kelly, Toney and Lisa.  The film was very well shot and the sound was killer. Very enjoyable look into MJ's life before he got really weird and his untimely death.   Beforehand, we had dinner at Hooky also where you can preorder for the movie too with bottomless sodas, ICEEs, and popcorn at reasonable prices.  The food-food was good too!  Nice place and experience. And four hours of comped parking too in the underground garage beneath it.  We will probably be back (the seating was the only drawback since it isn't recliners). 


Saturday, May 9 -
We decided to get our own tailgating spot at the Iroquois Steeplechase in Nashville this year and invited several friends and family members to attend with us.  It turned out to be a tremendous time as the weather was great, our space was in a good location, and everyone seemed to enjoy themselves. There's already talk of doing it again next year!


Our set-up was pretty great.   We had walking tacos, hot dogs and other snacks to munch on.  Libations a plenty with two Ninja slushie makers going thanks to our Bonnaroo generators.  We did $5 betting on each race with blind draws and only had one repeat winner in 7 races (it was that luck-box, Mollie Majors, lol).  What a great time!! 


New roof, who dis?  We had to put a
 new roof on our house in Whitwell that my crazy sister lives in.  It was pricey, but a good upgrade to our investment property.  Then we had $1,100 worth of tree and bush trimming/clearing done on the property as well.  

Tuesday, May 12 - 
We went to Parnassus Books tonight over in Green Hills to hear a talk with author and radio hall-of-famer, Scott Simon, about his new book, "Ulysses S. Cat and Other Animals I Have Known."  He was interviewed by Nashville radio host, Blake Farmer.  We had a chance to meet Mr. Simon afterwards and have our books personalized, but ironically, we had to get home since we had PETS to take care of. 


Thursday, May 13 - 
Well, she's back and better than ever!  Our beloved backyard pool got a new dark blue liner this year plus a few leak repairs and she's back in business as of today!  This is our 10th anniversary of the installation of the pool, and we still think it's the best money we've ever spent.   Of course, Sunny was the first one in with a swim first and then a float along with her new elephant friend.  


Saturday, May 16 -
We headed over to Brentwood tonight to help celebrate our good friend, Brenda, on her 60th birthday party.  It was a casino-themed party with fun games, great food, libation and laughter.  Congrats on being sexy sixty, Brenda!! 

  
Tuesday, May 19 - It's our 25th Wedding Anniversary!! - We flew very early this morning to Costa Rica on Delta Airlines for almost free thanks to points from Ashlee.  After a quick stop in Atlanta, we landed at the Liberia Airport in the Guanacaste Province on Costa Rica's west coast
(new country for us!). 


Both flights were smooth and easy despite being an hour delayed out of Nashville.  Our transfer in Atlanta was quick with no issues.  We didn't sit together so we could both have more comfy seats in the emergency aisle.  But we did conjointly watch the new Netflix film adaptation of the wonderful book, Remarkably Bright Creatures, which was excellent and quite the tear-jerker.


We chose to stay at the Esh Hotel and Spa in the Nosara Province, Town and Beach of the same name.  We booked a room with a private plunge pool (thanks tax refund!)  
They were awarded a Michelin Key in 2025! 
What should have been about an hour's drive here was a three-hour drive south of the airport as we took a private shuttle there that we booked through Viator.   We quickly learned that our theme of "Costa Rica 25" also applied to the average speed you could go in this country due to road conditions and traffic.  A few complimentary Imperial Beers helped some with the trek.  But in the end, it was well worth the effort, because from the moment we stepped into the pretty lobby (photo above) at the Esh Hotel and Spa we were treated with an amazing amount of warmth and welcoming kindness.  


Our room was awesome!  Huge comfy bed with a view of our plunge pool and the jungle beyond and a cool sunken living room.  


We were shocked to see a picture from our wedding and a note card with congratulations on our wedding anniversary from the entire staff waiting for us in our room.  We are not sure how they got this picture, but it was probably off my Facebook or Instagram page after I made a brief comment on their FB page that we were coming there for our 25th wedding anniversary.  So thoughtful! 


Our private plunge pool was so opulent and really hit the spot after such a long journey here.  


We had to dash through a rainstorm to get to dinner at the hotel restaurant, Almar, but again, the journey was worth the destination.  Our food was excellent.  Our cocktails were huge.  We even got a complimentary dessert to celebrate our wedding anniversary that we could only muster a couple bites of since we were already stuffed!  But, again, so thoughtful and nice.  Pictured above with our bountiful adult beverages was our appetizer which we both thought was the best dish of the night:  fresh seasonal tomatoes with house made hummus and warm pita bread.


The rain had stopped for our walk back to our room.  Every trek through the property is like a walk in the jungle with tree frog calls, bird songs, but otherwise peaceful solitude with every step.  


Wednesday, May 20 - A full day in Costa Rica!
Hey, did I mention that our room shower was technically outside?  Yep, in the photo above there is a glass door behind you and then the jungle in front of you.  The double rainfall showerheads made for a delightful and nicely private experience.  Ashlee did have a small gecko visit her on one occasion, but we think he was just trying to get out of the rain.  


With the weather cooperating today much more than the forecasted predictions, we decided to check out the beach while we had the chance.  The hotel provides a complimentary shuttle down to the beach and town areas of Nosara, so we hopped in and arrived at Guiones Beach after a ten-minute ride down from the Nicoya Highlands where we were staying.  The beaches here in this area are still wild and undeveloped.  Nosara is a surfing mecca, and we arrived after the tide was definitely out.  


We both did a little wading before the pounding surf which looked a bit too rough for us for swimming.  The Pacific water was shockingly warm.  No wonder the surfers love it here! 


It was time for some lunch, so we walked a short distance from the beach and found the Beach Dog Cafe.  What a great little place.  We sat outside on their patio with some breeze and overhead fans to help with the thick humidity.  Our food was simple (tacos and nachos) and delicious.  The libations were flowing including the traditional Chili Guaro Shot of Costa Rica which we both enjoyed.  


After lunch, we walked around the pretty, clean and simple town of Nosara for a bit and checked out some shops, but as stated before the humidity was thick, so a dip in the pool back at Esh was sounding good to us. 


Instead of waiting on the hotel shuttle, we decided to give a tuk-tuk a try for a ride back up to the hotel.  Yep, we spent several days in India without riding one only to come to Costa Rica to give it a try.  Air moved better in it than we thought it would, so it was a pleasant enough ride except the little single-cylinder engine barely got us back up to the steep grade to our hotel.  


Back at Esh, we decided to check out the hotel pool which like the rest of the place really does a nice job of blending into the jungle motif.  Looking more like a series of jungle ponds, this tri-level beauty was fun and relaxing.  


While we didn't see a ton of wildlife on our trip, they were definitely there.  Iguanas were the most noticeable and we saw several.  We saw tons of different birds too.  We could hear howler monkey outside our room but never caught sight of them.  This patriotic little guy (Costa Rica's flag is also red, white and blue) pictured above came crawling along in front of us while we were at the pool.  He kept to himself, as did we.  

We went to dinner again at Almar tonight and had another enjoyable meal.  Afterwards the evening was occupied with several games of Rummikub and a bottle of champagne we didn't get to last night for our anniversary but went down smoothly tonight! 


Thursday, May 21 - Another full day in Costa Rica! 
Another couple fun things about our room were the giant flowering banana tree plants right beside our pool and the kick-ass Costa Rican Britt espresso coffee that was complimentary and restocked every morning since we drank all we had anytime it was there!  


breakfast at the tiny Elios Tiki Room


"Sky blue, bitches!!"  


Beach is another wild. rocky undeveloped stretch on the other end of town from where we were yesterday.  


One of my favorite pix from our trip. 


Blue Zone Brewery 


It was a little bit of a maze to get to our room back at Esh, but we could always count on this beautiful tropical bloom to mark our path.  


Friday, May 22 - Another full day in Costa Rica!
We spent almost the entire day in our room today just hanging out, plunge pooling, snacking for brunch, playing Rummikub, and just relaxing before the long trek out tomorrow and 5 hours of flying.


 
We decided to make the trek on foot to Huacas Restaurant at the other nearby resort that I had scouted out on my earlier today called .  As with all trips in Costa Rica by car, golf cart or foot, this one paid off as well with an outstanding view for dinner.  That's in the distance beyond our excellent cocktails.  


We acquired a third wheel during dinner who I think was drawn to us by Ashlee's entree of beef but also seemed happy to just hang with us quietly and politely and never left us for another table our entire time there.  


(thanks for the pic, Internet) 


Saturday, May 23 - Our private shuttle picked up this morning at the hotel since we are flying back home from Costa Rica today. 


Another great trip and one we would do again if we can now that we are little wiser on how to travel in Costa Rica and still enjoy the pura vida! 












Saturday, March 7, 2026

Please Bring Spring!!

 


2/23 - Well, it looks like this little moocher will be hanging around with us a little while longer.  Unfortunately, Darla's mom lost her job just after moving down to Florida, so she's having to start over down there, and we told her it was no problem for sweet cheeks to stay with us a long as necessary and at no cost, of course.  


Happy Birthday, old girl!  You're still a dandy!! 

[ Work travel for me and Ashlee ate up a good part of late February and early March which was OK since we didn't have any big plans for this time of year anyway.]


Sunday, March 1 - We did get a lot of early spring clean-up and work done around the house this weekend as we both prepared to travel next week.  We happened upon this awesome outdoor storage box at Home Depot today at a very reasonable price.  It fits all six of our cushions for the patio table chairs and all the sofa cushions!!  What a great addition to our backyard oasis! 


We also spent the weekend enjoying this six-pack of giant doughnuts I brought back from Auntie Ruth's in Johnson City where I was for work this past week.  Ashlee had discovered their fame on Tik Tok and sent me on the hunt for them, and they happened to be just right across the street from ETSU where I was working!  They are "sourdough doughnuts" and I am not sure that's why they were still so delicious or why they stayed so moist and fresh even after the long trip and time inside the box.  I sure won't come back from JC without some of them ever again!  


Sunday, March 8 - Well, West Main Street strikes again!!!  I was almost back from being all the way up in Kentucky tonight and made a point not to go down Academy Road due to deer (we hit one on that road years ago) and came down four-lane wide Hwy. 70 instead only to have a large deer run into the side of our poor old Outback and severely damage the side of the car and even tearing off the rearview mirror.  I feel sorry for the dumb deer, but DAMN IT ALREADY!! The Sue-Bee protected me well again which I much appreciate. She's already at the collision center on her way to being mended at least.  God, I hate that road!!  


Monday, March 16 - We were both at home today for lunch but panicked a little when we found out today that our favorite Mexican joint, Speedy Burrito, was closed...luckily just for renovation and expansion!! Yay!!  So, we had to settle for (read this in your best Ron White voice) Guadala-goddamn-jara, a Mexican grocery store and restaurant over on West Main.  And their burritos are solid!! 


Tuesday, March 17 - Happy St. Patty's Day!!   We met up with our friends, Todd and Kelly, at the Burger Republic in Mt. Juliet for dinner tonight.  We chose BR because I found out that they had Guinness on tap (and a bunch of other taps - impressive!) and a holiday menu as well.  The food and libations were great including some boozy milkshakes for dessert.  


Wednesday, March 18 - Well, it was a good 10-year run, but our old pool liner is having to be replaced this spring.  It's time.  It had faded badly the last couple years and even started leaking some last summer.  Time to spend some money because we can't live without our beloved pool.  


Thursday, March 26 - The Empanada Lua food truck was on campus today and I grabbed the "chef's special" of four huge (and delicious) empanadas for me and Ashlee to share for lunch.  We enjoyed them out on the patio in the lovely mild weather.  


Sunday, March 29 - Even though I was dog-sitting on Hwy. 109 today and tonight, Ashlee and I were still able to meet up for two "dates" today.  We had lunch at Cedar City Brewing up on The Square in Lebanon (along with Sunny), and then we had dinner at Red Lobster in Providence with our friends, Wendy and Charly.  Good eats both times! 


Saturday, April 4 - We had some tasty food and libations tonight at the Lebanon Public House with our friends, Curtis and Kate.  We closed with a delicious Polly Sparrow Bakery cupcake (photo above) accented by Ashlee's brand-new shiny fingernails from a manicure earlier today.  


Thursday, April 9 - As we patiently wait for our new pool liner to be installed, somebody doesn't want to, so we got her a $20 kiddie pool at Dollar General to tide her over and she couldn't even wait until we got home and fill it with water!  Sunny is a any-kind-of-pool-loving doggie!


Sunday, April 12 - Since we can't afford to go to the 90th Masters, we brought a little bit of it home with us as Ashlee ordered a pretty cool Taste of The Masters snack box to share with some friends out on our patio in our lovely weather up here in Tennessee today.  The Masters-brand egg salad, barbecue, pimento cheese and chocolate chip cookies were all great.  Masters' libations were flowing as well.  We even had a little putting green to test our skills, and our TV was outside so we could watch some of the final day of the tournament.  I closed things out by winning my office Masters pool for a cool $230!! 


Tuesday, April 14
 - We attended a SOLD-OUT live broadcast of the "The Consumers" podcast tonight at Zanies Lab in Nashville.  The podcast is hosted by one of our favorite comedians, Greg Warren, along with fellow St. Louis-based funnymen, Tim Convy and Sean O'Brien.  I am a big fan of this podcast, so Ashlee got us tickets as a birthday gift (thanks, honey!).   They also had a special guest, comedian Aaron Weber, tonight and the brand discussed this episode was Nashville's own, Goo Goo Clusters.  We each got three different kinds of Goo Goo Clusters to try during the show.  We both thought the peanut butter version was the best, but the limited edition Cheerwine one was good also.  They even had the president of the company join them on the podcast.   

Thanks to Ashlee for being a good sport since she probably didn't get most of the inside jokes flying about during the show since she's not a regular listener to the podcast like I am.  This show was part of the larger Nashville Comedy Festival going on here this week. 

  My "truck nuts" joke was probably a little too blue for this podcast and will probably be edited out in the final version, but, hey, it "made Randy laugh!!" 


Friday, April 17 
- We went to see the spring semester opening-night production of "Grease" at Cumberland U tonight since it's one of Ashlee's favorites.  Our friends, Toney and Lisa joined us as well.  The show was 
Beforehand, we four also had dinner here in Lebanon at Just Fish which was very tasty.  This was our first time being in the new brick-and-mortar establishment of this former food truck service.    



Monday, April 20 - Earlier today, (on my birthday!) we got a big surprise when 
the pool contractors showed up almost a month earlier than we were expecting to start putting in our new liner!! 
Tuesday, April 21 - And then when find out it had been measured wrong...womp, womp...another 7 to 10 days of waiting on a new one to be reordered.  


Sunday, April 26 - A couple who pedi's together...Ashlee bought me a pedicure for my birthday (along with a lot of other cool stuff) even though it's "not only for youuuuu" (per comedian, Ron White) since she has to deal with my gross feet more than anyone else! My tech was Ashlee's girl as well for her manis and pedis.