WORDS TO LIVE BY...

"To strive, to seek, to find and not to yield"
- Alfred Lord Tennyson, 1833

"live deep and suck out all the marrow of life"
- Henry David Thoreau, 1845

"Some guys, they just give up living
And start dying little by little, piece by piece
Some guys come home from work and wash up,
And go racin' in the streets"
- Bruce Springsteen, 1977

"...to the heart, there's no time for you to waste.
You won't find your precious answers now
by staying in one place"
- Frank Turner, 2009

"The best things in life aren't things
They're living and breathing"
- Michael Franti , 2011

"Well, this world is ours while we are in it
Grab a hold of my hand
And we can take it
Together, our lives are just one passing minute
It could be gold, if we make it"
- Jay Buchanan, 2012

"We've got these times of our lives
Let's take this time to let it show
'cause these are ours.
These are ours!"
-Justin Furstenfeld, of Blue October 2013

"I owned every second that this world could give,
I saw so many places, the things that I did"
- Ryan Tedder of OneRepublic, 2014

"No cash in the bank, no paid holidays
All we have, all we have is
Gas in the tank, maps for the getaway
All we have, all we have is time"
- Andrew McMahon in the Wilderness, 2014



Days go by, Get out and see the world, Days go by, Get out and see the world with your own eyes - Brett Dennen 2021

All written content and photos by Rob Fulfer unless otherwise indicated.

Tuesday, February 27, 2018

CUBA 2018

We took a quick cruise out of Tampa this week and were able to mark another country off our "visited" list with Cuba as our destination.

Friday, February 16 - We flew down to Tampa after work today with our friends, Wendy and Charly, and got a hotel near the airport.  Everything went smooth except for me leaving my wallet on the plane like a dope.  Thanks to Southwest Airlines for the quick recovery of it.

Saturday, February 17 - After sleeping in a little and a grabbing a late brunch at the hotel, we Ubered over to the Port of Tampa and boarded the Carnival Paradise for our afternoon departure.

The Carnival Paradise is an older, smaller cruise ship.  In fact, it was going in to dry-dock we learned after this cruise to be refurbished and updated.  But she was making one more run to Cuba (while we still can) and we were happy to be aboard.
Speaking of old and small, the majority of passengers on this trip were in the senior-citizen range and here is a clandestine pic of our favorite one that we nicknamed "Tiny Trump."  He looked exactly like The Donald except he was only about 5' tall and wore some very interesting clothes including a "cuddle me" T-shirt and two types of "dress" shirts with wings on them.  He was just one of those people you happen to see every day on a cruise even if you aren't looking for them and when you do see them, it kinda makes your day.  People-watching is always a great past-time on a cruise. 
The city of Tampa faded into the golden sunset as we headed south out of the bay and down the west coast of Florida toward our first destination tomorrow morning, Key West.
Sunday, February 18 - We got into Key West around noon with a smattering of rain falling.  It was just enough for our scheduled snorkeling trip with Fury Charters to be cancelled due to cloudy water and choppy conditions.  Might as well go drinkin' I guess!   We went by The Porch which has the best craft beer selection in Key West, had a pint and figured out our next move.  Now we've been to Key West close to a dozen times and the one place we have never visited but always gets great reviews is Mel Fisher's Maritime Museum.  Now we know why....it was pretty damn interesting and a great way to wait out the weather!


These extremely rare Muzo emeralds  and the small box they were contained in were found by treasure hunter, Mel Fisher, in 1985 aboard the Spanish galleon, Nuestra Senora de Atocha which was lost to a hurricane in 1622 off the coast of Florida.  This amazing display plus dozens of others in the museum show many of the incredible finds of Fisher during his lifetime of searching the ocean floor.


The weather cleared after our museum visit, and we spent the rest of the afternoon eating and drinking our way around the Key West harbor with stops at The Waterfront Brewery for more beer and appetizers,  free samples at the Papa Hemingway Rum Distillery,  and last but not least, the historic Two Friends Patio Restaurant for some happy-hour cocktails (with 151 floaters...whoa, Nelly!) along with delicious conch fritters and steamed shrimp! 

There's no place that does sunsets better than Key West and this (no filter) shot back aboard the boat proves it once again. 
Monday, February 19 - Our Monday morning commute  today was an interesting and memorable one as we pulled into Havana Harbor for the very first time.  Kind of mind-boggling to think that just a few years ago on our way to Jamaica we had to fly all the way around Cuban airspace and here we are now sailing right into port on an American cruise ship.    Thanks for the opportunity, President Obama!
The Havana Harbor entrance is small, but striking in appearance.  We actually had to wait for another cruise ship to leave before entering it.  On the north side is the lighthouse, Faro de Castillo del Morro standing guard over the 16th-century fortress, Los Tres Reyes.
This panoramic look of Havana's waterfront on the south side of the harbor entrance was helped by the perfect weather we were having as we sailed in today.
Ah, the cars!  The classic cars catch your eye right from the start in Havana.  All of them are a rolling museum and an important part of the heritage of Cuba these days.
Our first tour off the boat focused on the flavors and traditions of Havana and our first stop on that tour was the seafood restaurant, Don Cangrejo,  which sits on the north coast where we were served fresh lobster and Cuban Bucanero beer while live music was played by the staff as we ate and drank.  The people seem so nice here in Cuba with big smiles and friendly faces all around.
Did I mention I like the old cars in Havana?  This beauty was sitting outside the restaurant when we came in and gone when we left...not just pretty, but practical and still a working machine.
Yep, more cars...with our ship in the background.  Note the ugly  Russian-made boxy cars in the background.  What a clash of ideologies this country has struggled with over the last century.   



Our next stop was for a little shopping for the best products from Cuba...cigars, rum and coffee.  This tiny little shop on the second floor of the old Bocoy Rum Factory building in the Cerro neighborhood did not disappoint.  Montecristos, Romeo y Julieta, and other  high-quality cigars, once illegal in the US, are abundant here and CHEAP!  You could bring up to 100 back with you.  You are only allowed one liter of rum and we got the best they had in sipping rum, Havana Club (and it was about 7 bucks).  We didn't buy any coffee, but had some a little later that was outstanding.
Just when you think all the classic cars probably hang around the port for the tourists to gawk at, we saw this little gathering from our bus deep into the city of Havana.     
Beside the rum and cigars, one of my favorite stops on this tour was at El Tanque (The Tank), a completely community-funded arts center built literally piece by piece in mosaic-style from a long-abandoned 100-year-old water tank in the Lawton area of Havana.   U.S. visitors are required to make some of their visit to Cuba educational and this stop filled that requirement, plus did a whole lot more to give you hope for this crumbling country that has been used as a pawn for so long in the struggle between world superpowers.  Caught in that struggle are real people just wanting to live their lives as best they can and fill that those lives with music, art and happiness. Not a bad thing at all.  This is also the first community center I have ever seen with a bar in the top of it!  Hey, make money however you can!  Cheers!
OK, so back to the debauchery!  Our final stop of this tour back near the port was for a coffee, rum and cigar tasting with a local expert. Hey, we are still "learning" here!   
We sipped our rich coffee and smooth Havana Club rum and puffed on our Romeo Y Julieta cigars in the beautiful courtyard of the historic Palacio de la Artesana building constructed circa 1780.  
We had just enough time when we got back to the boat to run back on-board, freshen up a bit (put on some long pants for me) and head back out for our night-time activity, a viewing of the Cabaret Parisien show at the swanky Hotel Nacional  de Cuba (photo above of the hotel was taken earlier in the day as we passed by it on our day tour).  
The show was pretty amazing.  Filled with color, movement and sound, Parisien Cabaret delivers everything the Cuban culture has to offer.  The mojitos weren't bad either!  Cheers!
Tuesday, February 20 - After a night in port, we got up early for our last tour, A Morning in Havana, a bus and walking tour of the port and Old Havana, a UNESCO World Heritage Site.


Our first stop of the morning was the massive Christ of Havana marble statue on the north side of the harbor entrance.  While not as tall as "Christ the Redeemer" in Rio de Janeiro, it's still an imposing figure.  The local joke is that his hands seem to simulate holding a cigar and a glass of rum...hey, their joke, not mine....but I do see it..
The view from the base of the Christ of Havana statue looking south back toward Old Havana and our ship was pretty amazing as we had yet another perfect day of weather in Cuba.


We also made a brief stop at the fortress, Los Tres Reyes, which we first saw coming in to port yesterday.
Back in Old Havana we began our walk in the quiet and beautiful Plaza de San Francisco




This streetscape shot in Old Havana shows the vibrant colors that abound here.  Unfortunately, a lot of Havana does not look this nice and kept up.  It's a crumbling town that seems to be trying to hang on to it's hey-days of the 1950's and while the classic American cars are shiny, clean and fussed-over, their owners seem to be living and working  among neglected homes and businesses which may not be their fault due to lack of resources, government help and valuable tourism dollars.
The National Cathedral of Cuba.  




The star-shaped Castillo de la Real Fuerza fortress built in the 1500's.
The Palacio de los Capitanes Generales Casa de Gobierno - a former palace, governor's home and now a national museum.  At my feet are wooden "cobblestones" which I unfortunately didn't get a good picture of.  The story goes the lady of the palace didn't like the clip-clop of horses hooves on actual cobblestones and had these installed to buffer the noise...rich people...go figure...
OK, last money-shot of more classic cars.  
As we headed out of Havana Harbor, these re-purposed warships still remind us of what was here, what still could be here and what hopefully is more of the past here in this interesting (yet still possibly dangerous) place just 90 miles from our shores, but light-years away from our hectic, modern world.  
Wednesday, February 21 - We enjoyed a lazy day at sea today stuffing ourselves with pretty good food, hitting the water-slide despite our ages and just hanging out and relaxing.

Thursday, February 22 - We were back in port early and immigration went pretty smooth and we made our flight home with no issues.  Thanks Carnival, Key West, Cuba and "Tiny Trump" for a fun and interesting trip.

Thursday, February 1, 2018

Hello, 2018!

2017 was a tremendous year and our newest collage proves that.  While dominated by souvenirs from our huge trip to Japan, our biggest collage (dimension-wise) to date was needed to accommodate everything we experienced including the Nashville Predators clinching of the Western Conference Championship (of which the poster we got that historic night made for a great back-drop) and a newspaper article in the Tennessean of us and a group of our friends experiencing the new Pontoon Saloon in downtown Nashville.  That's right, they are still printing newspapers.  Bring on 2018 for even more fun and frolic!

Ashlee sent out Happy New Year's cards this year instead of Christmas cards and they turned out pretty cool with some great (and, yes, weird) images from our amazing trip to Japan back in April.  Us dressed as Japanese Namahage in the top picture is actually very timely since they come out on New Year's Day to visit your house and scare off bad spirits for the new year...as long as you invite them in and feed them and give them sake!  We like that  last part the best!

OK, we admit it...we are officially addicted to a new taco truck here in Lebanon...Alberto really knows how to make great tacos! We've had them twice already in the new year and the burritos more than that! 

Saturday, January 6 - On our way to Pigeon Forge for a quick overnight stay, we stopped in Knoxville at The Pretentious Beer and Glass Company for not only some good craft beer, but also an interesting look at the glass-blowing going on next door.  They make all the beer glasses for the brewery next door plus a ton of other beautiful creations.  We had a tasty lunch a couple doors down also at The Crown and Goose Pub.
Our reason for going to Pigeon Forge was to stay at the adorable Inn at Christmas Place, a hotel that celebrates the yule tide season all year long.  Ashlee was in heaven since it's her favorite holiday of them all.  It really is a lovely hotel and they do a great job with amenities for their guests including receiving a nice ornament at check-in, a singing Santa concert, free milk and cookies, free coffee and cider, a tasty complimentary breakfast buffet with omelet station, and tons of cool Christmas decorations throughout the property.  We had a great time along with Ashlee's sister Paige, and our niece, Ella.
The view from our room was a pretty good one.  The hotel is in a great spot with lots of restaurants, shopping and other activities nearby.  Despite some cold temps, the weather worked with us quite well and it was nice  to see the mountains again.
Thursday, January 11 -  We took in a showing of The Greatest Showman at our local Roxy Theater (all recliners, don't forget) per MoviePass, and we were kind of blown away at how good it was.  Outstanding original music, good story and gorgeous cinematography.  



Monday, January 15 -
We had a day off to honor the late Dr. King and headed into Nashville to run a couple errands and catch a movie before the bad weather was to set in later tonight.

It's a good thing these folks aren't closer or we might have us another food truck addiction...we got a small pan of  The Peach Cobbler Factory's amazing peach cobbler  to take home, but still had to sample it in the parking lot before leaving.  Afterwards, we stopped by the nearby 12 South Taproom and Grill to split some nachos and have a couple brew-skies before our afternoon matinee.

We caught a showing of the coming-of-age quirky comedy, Lady Bird, (thanks again MoviePass) at the Green Hills Theaters (recliners, oh yeah).  It was pretty good and confirmed to us that everybody's momma is crazy, but means well.  
Thursday, January 18 - Next stop on the MoviePass train was The Post at our local Roxy All-Recliners Theater.  For a movie that was basically just a bunch of people talking, it was great!  Speilberg does it again!   Thanks to our friend, Casey, for joining us to see it.

Sunday, January 21 -  We had an interesting experience today at Float Nashville.  It was a 90-minute isolation chamber session where you float in about 10 inches of heavily salted water in complete darkness.  We both really enjoyed the experience and found it both relaxing during as well as energizing afterwards.  We are considering buying another two-for-one deal there to get a couple more floats in this year.  Thanks to Ashlee for the gift certificate for this float that I got for Christmas.  Afterwards, we settled on The Stillery on Broadway for brunch which was pretty tasty.
This was my tank at Float Nashville, and Ashlee's was the same kind.  They also have an open tank for the claustrophobic folks.  The staff was very friendly and the place was ultra-clean and very private.  

Tuesday, January 23 - We headed over to Cool Springs/Franklin today to catch a showing of I, Tonya at the Thoroughbred Theaters (more recliners!) with our friends, Danny and Brenda.  The movie was great with perfect casting throughout.  No way does Alison Janney not win an Oscar for best supporting actress as Tonya Harding's nut-so mother.  We also had dinner there which was delicious and delivered to our seats.  Sweet! (Editor's Note:  March 4, 2018 - Alison takes home the Oscar...told ya!)



Tuesday, January 2, 2018

2017 draws to a close...


Thursday, November 2 - We went and saw the new Marvel movie, Thor: Ragnarok in IMAX tonight.  It was funny, fast-paced and very enjoyable.
We know it's Thor's movie, but we like The Hulk better...well I do, anyway...Ashlee is pretty big fan of Chris Hemsworth...
Sunday, November 5 - We broke our old record of November 1st today as the latest day in the year that we have gotten in the pool.  The air temps were great in the upper 70's, but the water was cold enough that neither of us stayed in long,  but we each did a full lap. 
Saturday, November 11 - We were in Chattanooga this weekend for the not-so-fun reason that Ashlee's mom was in the hospital.  We took a break from there and checked out the brand new Heaven and Ale Brewing in North Chattanooga.  Great beer, a delicious cheese plate and a beautiful facility.  We will definitely be putting more visits in here in the future!
Thursday, November 16 - It was another opening night for us as we saw Justice League in IMAX.  Despite rather poor early reviews, we thought it was pretty decent.
Friday, November 17 - We went to Opening Night of the 2017 Dancing Lights of Christmas Mega Drive-Thru Light Show tonight.  We were thrilled when it was announced this year that this long-time Nashville holiday tradition was moving from the Opryland area to right in our own back yard at the Wilson County Fairgrounds.  It's a spectacular show and we have a ticket to see it again for sure this season.

Thursday - Sunday, November 23-26:  We continued a Thanksgiving tradition this year by renting a house down in Destin, Florida, for the holiday week.   I worked  the first part of the week and then on  Thanksgiving morning I flew down to the Panama City to join Ashlee, her mom, sister and niece at the beach.


Thursday, November 23 -  Are we in the Bahamas?  We have never seen The Gulf this clear.  We had what we thought was great weather last year, but this year was even better with mid-70's temps and water warm enough to wade in.
Friday, November 24 -  It was another beautiful weather day and after sleeping in on our giant bed in the nice house Ashlee found to rent in the Destiny East gated community, we took our included golf cart on a ten-minute ride back to the beach for more sun and fun.
Another beautiful day (and sunset) at Destin Beach.

Saturday, November 25 -  The temps were still warm today, but there was a good bit of cloud cover which made for some interesting and artistic beach pictures.  The drive back o Sunday, November 26 was uneventful other than the fact we made great time and dodged a lot of heavy traffic by leaving pretty early.    
Thursday, November 30 -  We had a tasty dinner  and drinks downtown tonight before the Marc Roberge, (lead singer of O/A/R)  acoustic show at the City Winery which was excellent.  Marc even brought our O/A/R drummer (and friend since childhood), Chris Culos, for a few songs.


Sunday, December 3 - We caught the last of six SOLD OUT shows featuring one of our favorite new comedians,  Trae Crowder, at Zanies Comedy Club in Nashville.  Look for Trae on sit-com TV very soon.   Our VIP tickets also got us up-close seating and a Meet and Greet after the show.   Also performing were Corey Forrester (who turned out to be our favorite of the evening) and Drew Morgan in the WellRED Comedy Tour "From Dixie with Love".  There were also two guest appearances by Stewart Huff and Jenn Snyder.  What a great, laugh-filled evening!

Meetin' n greetin' with (L to R) Corey Forrester, Trae Crowder and Drew Morgan.
Saturday, December 9 -  We hosted our Christmas "Partay" (Trailer-Park Themed) tonight and it was a blast!  We had well over 20 people show up "in character" and characters they were!  We left good taste at the door and had a lot of fun with junk food and a Steamer Pack of Krystal cheeseburgers to eat, a good amount of alcohol in various forms, a hilarious "wife-beater" tank-top T-shirt art contest, and a rousing couple of rounds of Cards Against Humanity.  
Photo courtesy of Swearnet.com


Sunday, December 10 - We fired up our new MoviePass cards tonight and caught a screening of  the silly, but entertaining, Daddy's Home 2 at our new and improved all-recliners Roxy 10 Movie Theater here in Lebanon. 


Tuesday, December 12 - It was MoviePass time again, this time at the Regal Theaters in Green Hills (which also went all recliners recently).  We saw the highly-lauded Three Billboards Outside Ebbing, Missouri, which was a little disturbing, but full of incredible performances that created some unforgettable characters.   This one's gonna do some damage come awards season we think.  (Editor's Note: 3/4/18 - two acting Oscars nabbed by Frances McDormand and Sam Rockwell tonight.)

Thursday, December 14 - We opted out of the MoviePass goodness tonight and shelled out real money for the Star Wars VII: The Last Jedi special fan screening in RPX.  The "special event" turned out to be a real disappointing flop, but the movie was decent enough.

Monday, December 25 - A toast to a Merry Christmas and some thankful peace and quiet once we got back home from seeing the family over the holiday weekend.    This bottle of Arrington Vineyards bubbly brought to us by some poker winnings of mine a while back.  
Wednesday, December 27 - We saw Jumanji: Welcome to the Jungle  tonight thanks to MoviePass at the all-recliners UEC Roxy Theater here in Lebanon.  It was actually a pretty good, fun film.

December 28 - We were having some relatives staying over at the house this long holiday weekend and since it was too cold to stay in the garage, we dropped Zippy off for a few days at the local cat spa, The Chatter Cat Inn
Here he is literally "rockin' the cat spa."
Saturday, December 30 -  We went and checked out the 2017 Dancing Lights of Christmas Mega Drive-Thru Light Show (see photo above) again tonight and enjoyed them just as much the second time!

Sunday, December 31 - We stayed home for New Year's Eve this year and decided to ride the Music City Star train to downtown Nashville from Lebanon.  Our friend, Bethany, joined us and we had a pleasant (and warm) ride down while sipping on a little Fireball Whiskey at each stop.  Evidently, we didn't have to hide our booze as we saw several people openly carry adult beverages on board.  Who knew!?!  But what a great idea to keep impaired drivers off the road.  We climbed back on at 1:30 A.M. and were home a little after 2.  

Ashlee got us tickets for Acme Feed and Seed's New Year's Eve bash.  They had two excellent bands playing and we were able to get a table for the night as well.  We enjoyed a large plate of tasty sushi from the second floor sushi bar also.  

Tuesday, October 24, 2017

Two Canadians walk into a Nashville bar...

With fall here and our friend, Sharon, and her niece, Lauren, in for a visit from Canada, we found a few fun autumn-themed things to do in the Nashville area for the long weekend while they were here:


Saturday, October 21 -  We checked out a quite large Nashville Predators-themed Corn Maze over at Lucky Ladd Farms in Eagleville, TN today.
Here's an overview of the corn maze (photo stolen from The Nashville Predators email).

We made pretty quick work of the corn maze and its six check-points.  We think the goat did it with the corn cannon in the outhouse (don't ask...you had to be there).  This was our first visit to this area and the Lucky Ladd Farm is a huge complex with a lot of activities besides just the corn maze which made it a good experience for us since the crowds were huge when we arrived but evidently spread out and not just packed onto the narrow trails in the tall corn.
We moved on from the farm to the vineyard with a late afternoon/evening stop at the beautiful, and also quite busy, Arrington Winery, for a picnic with some sketchy cheese (thanks, Eagleville Market and Deli) and several bottles of their pretty darn good wine.  
The evening continued pretty late when we got home with a backyard fire and s'mores along with, you guessed it, "s'more wine." ( Thanks for the photo, Sharon).
Sunday, October 22 - It was another day of sightseeing and revelry in and around Nashville today...we headed to the 12 South area first for a little shopping and a little sipping at The Filling Station which has an amazing selection of craft beer.

Per Lauren's request, we located several large murals around Nashville, some of which Ashlee and I hadn't even seen before.  Evidently, our little big city is known for them now and they have become quite a collection to seek out by visitors.  
We had an early delicious dinner (and more drinks, of course) at Saint Anejo Cantina in The Gulch where we met up with our long, long-time friend, James (Doug) Garza who I went to college with back at Tennessee Tech many moons ago.  We both said that neither of us had changed much over the many years and  we quickly caught up over a lot of laughs and memories. Thanks for the photo, Ashlee
Our next stop after seeking out another mural before dark was the L27 Rooftop Bar on top of the new Westin Hotel downtown.  The night was perfect and the views were jaw-dropping.  What a great city this little town is becoming!
Our final stop of the evening was north of downtown in White's Creek, TN, at the Fontanel property where a national event called The Glow: A Jack O'Lantern Experience was being presented.  We had grabbed some discount tickets through Groupon for their latest entry time, 9:30 PM.  The weather wasn't predicted to work out for us, but somehow it did and we enjoyed the exhibit with no rain, decent night-time temps and very few other people.  

With over 5,000 hand-carved  and hand-molded pumpkins displayed in a dozen or more different scenarios within a 3/10 of a mile walking loop, The Glow was quite an interesting and unique experience.
Monday, October 23 - Ashlee and I had to work today so Sharon and Lauren explored more of Nashville on their own, and we met them for dinner in East Nashville at The Pharmacy for some tasty burgers and tots.  Afterwards we walked off our meals at the always pleasant Opryland Hotel with its magnificent displays and indoor gardens.  We seem to forget what a nice place this is and how it's always changing.  We need to stop by here more often!