WORDS TO LIVE BY...

"To strive, to seek, to find and not to yield"
- Alfred Lord Tennyson, 1833

"live deep and suck out all the marrow of life"
- Henry David Thoreau, 1845

"Some guys, they just give up living
And start dying little by little, piece by piece
Some guys come home from work and wash up,
And go racin' in the streets"
- Bruce Springsteen, 1977

"...to the heart, there's no time for you to waste.
You won't find your precious answers now
by staying in one place"
- Frank Turner, 2009

"The best things in life aren't things
They're living and breathing"
- Michael Franti , 2011

"Well, this world is ours while we are in it
Grab a hold of my hand
And we can take it
Together, our lives are just one passing minute
It could be gold, if we make it"
- Jay Buchanan, 2012

"We've got these times of our lives
Let's take this time to let it show
'cause these are ours.
These are ours!"
-Justin Furstenfeld, of Blue October 2013

"I owned every second that this world could give,
I saw so many places, the things that I did"
- Ryan Tedder of OneRepublic, 2014

"No cash in the bank, no paid holidays
All we have, all we have is
Gas in the tank, maps for the getaway
All we have, all we have is time"
- Andrew McMahon in the Wilderness, 2014



Days go by, Get out and see the world, Days go by, Get out and see the world with your own eyes - Brett Dennen 2021

All written content and photos by Rob Fulfer unless otherwise indicated.

Friday, May 30, 2008

"The Devil's Words" whispered "Sweet and Low" by Joe, the Nashville Playwright

It's rare for us to spend two "school" nights in one week staying out late, but this week was worth the effort for two excellent concerts in Nashville. Tuesday night, the 27th, we saw Augustana at City Hall, a great little venue in "The Gulch" of downtown Nashville. We were sorry to hear that it looks to be closing in the near future. That too bad since we were able to stand only a few feet from the band(s) and the acoustics are great. Augustana looks and sounds very polished for a fairly "new" band with only their second full-length album coming out earlier this month. Every song on it is great, by the way. Lead singer, Dan Layus, has an incredible voice, but one of the highlights of the concert was a cool 5-part harmony with all the bandmembers reminiscent of The Eagles' "Seven Bridges Road." Their current single, "Sweet and Low" and their break-out single 'Boston' were strong finishing numbers and was followed by an encore version of Big Joe Williams' "Baby, Please Don't Go"...you know the one...."baby, please don't go...baby please don't go, back to New Orelans, baby please don't go..." Another added bonus of the evening was a strong opening set by Wild Sweet Orange from Birmingham. These guys are a little... different... reminded us a little of The Cure...but their original songs are lyrical, clever and smooth. We might be able to say "we saw them when" someday soon when they hit it big. Thursday night, the 29th, felt like we were doing a Rachel Ray-type show that should have been called "An Evening of Entertainment in Nashville for under $20." After dinner at Mafioso's (great pizza!) with our friend, Lisa, we headed over to the new Ovvio Arte - a 1937 garage converted into space for art exhibits, live music and theatre productions. What a neat concept! We were there for opening night of Rubber Ducks and Religion which is their first theatre production and was penned by our friend, Joe Giordano - way to go, Joe!! The production was an intermingling of three one-act plays that were clever, laugh-out loud funny and quite thought-provoking. All this fun for just $10. After congratulating Joe on his success, we headed over to 12th & Porter to catch The Gougers - an excellent alt-country/folk band from Austin that we discovered last year at the Americana Music Festival in Nashville. This was our first visit to the 12th & Porter musical venue (we used to eat in the restaurant portion of the establishment quite a lot until they changed the menu....we miss you Pasta YaYa and Black & Blue Pasta!!) and despite being rather small it works well with more seating than expected and great acoustics. It was front-row for us this time thanks to a small crowd which didn't seem to discourage The Gougers who rolled out great song after great song including "The Devil's Words" and "Mannheim Station." The small crowd and front row access gave us a nice opportunity after the show to chat with the band's main vocalists, Jamie and Shane - both very nice folks although we are mad at Shane because he wouldn't sing "John Henry" for us because he says he's "sick of it." Jamie just rolled her eyes and said not to worry that it would make it back in the show sometime because Shane is very "cyclical" in nature when it comes to his favorite/least-favorite songs to perform. They said they figured they would be back to Nashville this fall for the 2008 Americana Music Festival and we sure hope to see them again. All this fun for only $8. A special thanks to our friend, Lisa, for being such a trooper and going to Joe's play and to see The Gougers with us despite knowing nothing about either. She wound up enjoying both immensely and looked like she would have liked to enjoy that Gouger, Shane, a bit more, but alas...damn musicians and their wandering ways!

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Home-made Hooch Tour '08

The Tennessee Wine Festival, The Yazoo Brewery Tour and Music in the Vines at Arrington Vineyards all in one day. Saturday, May 17th. Isn't it funny how things just sometimes fall into place in terms of weather, timing and just plain old luck. The weather has been very iffy this spring here around Nashville, but yesterday was beautiful with mild temperatures, slight breezes and beautiful blue skies dotted with those big puffy white clouds. It made a perfect day to visit the The Tennessee Wine Festival held at Nashville Shores on Percy Priest Lake. We attended with our friend, Joy, and we had all been to this little festival before when it was held at the Nashville Super Speedway, but this was our first visit to it since it moved to Nashville Shores a couple of years ago. The move looks to be a good one because the little festival that was back then is now the bigger one that is in need of room to spread out. We arrived around 3 pm and found large crowds in all of the tents which each held 3 or 4 different tasting stations for wineries from all around Tennessee. Many old favorites were there such as Beech Haven from Clarksville and Stonehaus from Crossville, plus some pretty good new ones like Amber Falls from out near Hohenwald and Arrington near Franklin. There were also gourmet food stations, wine seminars and crafts for sale, and being situated right on the lake at Nashville Shores there were lots of places to have a picnic lunch. We have made a note to get there earlier next year and hopefully make a day of it. But not this year because we were on a tight schedule with The Home-made Hooch Tour '08 and it was time to move on to our next stop, The Yazoo Brewery in downtown Nashville. The three of us arrived at the site of the brewery off of 12th Avenue around 5 PM and had arranged to meet our friends, Woody and Linda, for the 5:30 tour of the brewery. Woody introduced Rob to Yazoo beer a couple of years ago and Rob in turn introduced it to Joy last year - nothing like a mutual co-dependence society. The brewery is housed in an interesting old car manufacturing plant and the folks running it couldn't be nicer (in fact, they allowed us 5 and two others to join the already technically "full" tour since it was the last one of the day). Our tour guide was funny and a great sport to have to handle so many people on the last tour of the day. The tour was informative and casual and included a free glass in which a lot of samples were given out. It's hard to decide a favorite beer since among the five of us we all had a different choice as to which was the best, so in no particular order and all tied for 1st place here goes: Dos Perros, Onward Stout, Sly Rye Porter, Pale Ale and the IPA. Yazoo is only distributed in Southeast and they have no plans for nationwide distrubution so support your local brewery and give Yazoo a try if you haven't already. After the tour was over and growlers had been purchased (a growler is a half-gallon of beer in a take-home bottle and the one question our tour guide couldn't answer was where the name "growler" comes from...and neither does Wikipedia so don't bother looking) it was time to move the tour to our final destination, The Arrington Vineyards near Franklin. This was our second visit to Arrington but our first time to experience their "Music in the Vines." As mentioned earlier, this vineyard is fairly new. It is also co-owned by Kix Brooks of Brook & Dunn fame. It sits on top of hill with beautiful views and lots of area to spread out blankets and chairs, buy a bottle or two of their pretty darn good wine and listen to some music. They do this every Saturday and Sunday night in late spring and summer and we will defintely be back and hope for weather as perfect as it was yesterday and last night for Home-made Hooch Tour '08.

Saturday, May 17, 2008

TWIST 'EM, PINCH 'EM, SUCK 'EM, CHASE 'EM, CHUCK 'EM

2nd Annual Nashville Crawfish Boil - Friday night, May 16th It took a couple dozen crawfish for Rob to get his method down, but once he did those little freshwater lobsters didn't stand a chance. WARNING: The next sentence is gonna sound somewhat dirty, so get your snickering out of the way now. The Rob-method for eating boiled crawfish is to twist them apart, pinch the tail to expose the meat, suck out the meat, chase the meat with a suck of the head (that's where all the spices are) and then chuck the carcass on to the banks of the Cumberland River (good thing those waterbugs are biodegradeable). Speaking of dirty, Ashlee thought they tasted like sand and was not a big fan, but she gave them a solid try along with our friend, Lisa, who we ran into when we arrived at the festival. 3 Doors Down put on a pretty good show in terms of outdoor festival concerts. The sound wasn't spectacular and their set wasn't very long, but that's to be expected at this type of event. We upgraded to the "VIP" section of the festival thanks to a Ticketmaster gift card we got for Christmas from our friends, Craig and Alison. It was all the crawfish you could eat, private viewing area (not as close to the stage as we figured, but roomy at least) and private bathrooms (if you call 5oo people private - but it did beat using the port-o-potties). Probably the neatest thing was how we got to and from the festival in Nashville from our home in Lebanon which is a half-hour away. We took Nashville's first commuter railway, The Nashville Star, downtown and then hired a car service to bring us back (unfortunately the train returns much too early to use it as a way home after a real night on the town). A little pricey perhaps and we couldn't do it all the time, but when you consider paying for and finding parking in downtown Nashville, current gas prices to burn your own fuel and eliminating the risk of a DUI - it was worth every penny....and our driver, Graham, was a hoot.

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Rob and Ashlee say VOTE REPUBLICAN....CONCH REPUBLICAN that is

Another great trip to the Conch Republic (i.e. Key West) is in the books for us. This was our 8th visit to Margaritaville by our count and it was a dandy. Great food, perfect weather and good times had by all. MAY 4 - After arriving a day early and spending the night in Ft. Lauderdale (see previous post) we met Ashlee's sister, Paige, and her husband, Andy, the next morning as they flew in from Chattanooga and we headed south in a nice Chrysler Pacifica (pretty good gas mileage for a big vehicle). The 3-hour-plus drive thru the Keys was as good as promised in terms of scenery to Andy who had not made the drive before. Andy has been to Key West three times, but always arriving either by plane or cruise ship. With only a quick stop in Islamorada at the wonderful Worldwide Sportsman Store, we arrived in Key West and our usual place of tropical domicile, The Eden House, just in time for a few cocktails and a stroll to the north end of Duval Street for dinner at "Alice's." The food was superb as usual and Paige claimed the "Best in Show" prize for the dessert she ordered, The Tropical Fruit Short Cake With Passion Fruit and Chantilly Cream. MAY 5 - "Cinqo de Tortuga" - We were up at the crack of dawn today to take the Sunny Days "Fast Cat" Catamaran Ferry to the Dry Tortugas and Fort Jefferson. What a cool place. (photo above)
This day-trip was also for the benefit of Andy who had not been before, but everyone enjoyed a great day of sun, history, beach and snorkeling. We got some good advice for our dinner destination, a small Italian restaurant a few blocks from our hotel called "Mangia, Mangia." Yes, we looked it up and it means what else..."Eat, Eat!" and boy, did we ever. Excellent fresh pasta, Cuban garlic bread and an interesting Slovenian pino grigio called Movia. We followed that up with a late-evening cab ride to Louie's Backyard on the south end of the island for champagne and dessert. We never knew butterscotch pudding could be so good! MAY 6 - Lay around the pool day - relaxing and fun - what Key West is all about. Dinner was at our favorite place, Blue Heaven, and it was incredible as always. Ask for the secret grouper dish...it's not on the menu. MAY 7 - Almost back to reality - after lunch at Jimmy Buffet's Margaritaville - yeah, it's a little corny but the cheeseburgers in paradise are pretty good and it's become kind of a tradition for us on our last day of a Key West trip - we turned the big Chrysler beast north and headed back to Ft. Lauderdale for an evening flight home...."changes in latitudes, changes in attitudes"....you got that right, Jimmy.

Sunday, May 4, 2008

100 miles round-trip for dinner?

Would you drive 50 miles one-way up the coast of Florida for a seafood dinner? What if that seafood restaurant was located at the end of an old strip mall with zero view of the ocean? Would it be worth it? Well, it was to us and we did it last night driving from Ft. Lauderdale up the coast to Juno Beach to eat at Captain Charlie's Reef Grill...and it was worth every mile, minute and dollar. Best seafood in the world - bar none. Rob had the peppered wahoo and Ashlee had the sesame tuna. This is our third time eating at the Reef Grill - we ate there two nights in a row on a trip to W. Palm Beach a few years ago. It was much easier to find this time with the aid of Ashlee's GPS device. The first time we tried to find it without such a device was quite an adventure since as was stated above The Reef Grill is a local secret located on the end of a dated strip mall and kind of hard to find. You will know when you find it, however, because the parking lot will be packed. If you are ever in the W. Palm - Ft. Lauderdale area and want some real seafood at it's best, then seek out The Reef Grill. Amazing menu, great wine list, wide selection of bottled beer and on tap. Can you imagine how many seafood restaurants we passed in 50 miles of Florida coastline? Off to Key West today. Take care, all.

Sunday, April 27, 2008

Volume One - Issue One

Rob & Ashlee's Collage Barrage '08
Volume I-------------------------------Issue 1
Welcome to the premier issue...
DONE AND DONE (A quick update on our recently completed exploits)
Screening of The Deal starring William H. Macy and Meg Ryan at opening night of the Nashville Film Festival with a follow-up party at the BMI Building on Music Row. Great movie introduced by Mr. Macy who then followed it up with a Q&A session. Then we got the honor to meet him at the party afterwards and Ashlee got a great self-portrait with him.
Obviously he was a really nice guy to allow this type of harassment.
Weekend trip to Philadelphia - we had a great overnight trip to Philly for Rob's birthday thanks to two cheap tix on Southwest Airlines. We saw the Liberty Bell, Independence Hall (photo above), the Betsy Ross House and Ben Franklin's Grave during two different walking tours downtown. Many thanks to Ashlee's co-worker and our friend, Ilene, for hooking up with us for the day on Sunday, and for hooking us up with Jim's Philly Cheesesteaks (yummy) and the Philadelphia Soft Pretzel Company (yes, TSA did search the bag of 20 we brought back - they were tempted but did not confiscate them or the spicy mustard....whew!)
Scott Miller and the Commonwealth at The (now smoke-free...hurray!) Mercy Lounge in Nashville - the boys from Knoxville and points northeastward put on a great show in front of a surprisingly small crowd for a Friday night. Thanks to the small crowd, however, for allowing us a front row view for such great mud-stomping songs like "8 Miles a Gallon," "Drunk All Around this Town" and "Wildcat Whistle."
UP AND COMING (These are events we've either bought tickets for already or just know we can't miss this year if at all possible.)
Key West - May 3 to 7- Our (almost) annual pilgrimage to the tropical outskirts of America is a just a few short days away. Amen, brother, and pass the coconut rum.
Take a live look at our home away from home -
The Eden House - Key West, FL
3 Doors Down at the 2nd Annual Nashville Crawfish Boil - downtown on the riverfront - Friday night, May 16th - we opted for the VIP upgrade which gives us private bathrooms, a private screening area to watch the show and all the crawfish you can eat...Rob aims to make them pay dearly for this last perk.
Augustana at City Hall in Nashville - Tuesday night, May 27th - wow, these guys are newly discovered by us and we are very excited to see them live for the first time. If you haven't heard "Boston" or their new single "Sweet and Low" do yourself a favor and give them a listen on iTunes. City Hall is a great small general admission venue as well that gets you very close to the performers.
Scott Miller & the Commonwealth (AGAIN) at Chattanooga Rhythm & Brews on Friday night, June 6th - did we mention these guys put on a great live show? And for only $10 how can we say no?
Check out the boys on the clip below while keeping two inaccuracies in mind: it's on CMT, but it ain't country, and it sure ain't acoustic!
Bonnaroo 08 - June 12-15 - yep, we are going. Ashlee called Rob's bluff and got everything organized including buying a pop-up camper to stay in (with A/C), a way to tow it there and back, a generator to run the A/C, and tix to what looks to be an amazing four days of music, comedy, weirdos, etc. We've never been and don't know what to expect, but 90,000 people can't be completely wrong...can they? We are comparing it to going to NYC a few years ago on New Year's Eve...we've got to try it at least once.
Bele Chere Festival in Asheville, N.C. - July 25-27 -This will be our third straight year to attend this basically free weekend festival held in downtown Asheville. They literally close off traffic to most of Asheville's beautiful downtown streets and put music, artisans and other entertainment in every nook and cranny they can find. They have one fairly big name musical act each night that you can pay a little extra to see up close or you can just listen to for free as you walk around downtown. Most of the unique stores and local restaurants/bars are open serving food and adult beverages at very reasonable prices ($3 beer! no festival price-gouging here). We will stay at a nearby Hampton Inn Saturday night and ride a shuttle bus to the event. Asheville is a very unique city any time of the year. Their downtown is very lively and the aforementioned shops and restaurants are all local - there are no chain restaurants or national brand stores in the downtown area.
New Year's Eve Cruise - Dec. 28th - Jan. 4th, 2oo9 Sailing out of Ft. Lauderdale on the second voyage of the "Celebrity Solstice" which will include such never-done-before on-board-a-cruise-ship amenities like a glass-blowing studio and a half-acre lawn of real grass. Stops include San Juan, St. Kitts and St. Maarten. Ashlee's Mom & nephew Matt will be joining us.
MAYBE, PROBABLY...WE HOPE SO (No tickets bought yet, but these events and/or trips are being seriously kicked around currently by us.)
TN State Wine Festival - Saturday, May 17th - We haven't been since they moved it to Nashville Shores (last year) but when it was held at the Nashville Super Speedway it was a great little event for the price.
Arrington Vineyards - Music in the Vines - every weekend this summer this beautiful winery in Franklin has music on the grounds. This is the one partially owned by Kix Brooks.
Europe in late August - we are looking for a decent (ok, cheap) airfare to London or Dublin (or both) and want to include a stop in Germany to see Rob's never-let-you-go-to-bed-sober relatives. We have (kind of) put the Norway cruise on hold until next year..but we haven't cancelled it yet either for this same time. Tune in to this station for further updates on this breaking story.
MOVIES (our new summer plan is to eat dinner and consume a few tasty adult beverages on the patio of Fulin's Asian Cuisine Restaurant in Mt. Juliet and then walk across the street to the Providence Theatres.)
Baby Momma - that Tina Fey is funny and Rob think's she's kind of hot.
Harold & Kumar Escape from Guantanamo Bay - this is more like a training film for us for dealing with people at Bonnaroo
Rob's the big movie nerd and is more excited about these upcoming summer flicks than Ashlee may (or may not) be: Iron Man, the new Indiana Jones, The Dark Knight, Hancock, Journey to the Center of the Earth (yeah, Ashlee could care less about all of these!)