In the den of our home we have mounted on the walls 27 different framed collages representing 35 years of ticket stubs, photos and other memorabilia from our life together. As we were working on our 18th year, we thought maybe it was time to get a little more organized in remembering what we have done. This blog was the answer.
WORDS TO LIVE BY...
"To strive, to seek, to find and not to yield"
- Alfred Lord Tennyson, 1833
All written content and photos by Rob Fulfer unless otherwise indicated. "live deep and suck out all the marrow of life"
- Henry David Thoreau, 1845
"Some guys, they just give up living
And start dying little by little, piece by piece
Some guys come home from work and wash up,
And go racin' in the streets"
- Bruce Springsteen, 1977
"...to the heart, there's no time for you to waste.
You won't find your precious answers now
by staying in one place"
- Frank Turner, 2009
Days go by, Get out and see the world, Days go by, Get out and see the world with your own eyes - Brett Dennen 2021
"The best things in life aren't things
They're living and breathing"
- Michael Franti , 2011
"Well, this world is ours while we are in it
Grab a hold of my hand
And we can take it
Together, our lives are just one passing minute
It could be gold, if we make it"
- Jay Buchanan, 2012
"We've got these times of our lives
Let's take this time to let it show
'cause these are ours.
These are ours!"
-Justin Furstenfeld, of Blue October 2013
"I owned every second that this world could give,
I saw so many places, the things that I did"
- Ryan Tedder of OneRepublic, 2014
"No cash in the bank, no paid holidays
All we have, all we have is
Gas in the tank, maps for the getaway
All we have, all we have is time"
- Andrew McMahon in the Wilderness, 2014
Days go by, Get out and see the world, Days go by, Get out and see the world with your own eyes - Brett Dennen 2021
Wednesday, November 13, 2013
Friday, October 25, 2013
FALLing into a month of fun
With late September bringing the start of the fall season, we've had a month of fun activities around our local region here to report:
| After the game, we returned back to East Nashville for some awesome ice cream at Jeni's. |
Part of that time crunch that forced us to skip the N2B show was the fact that Ashlee and I had separate trips coming up the proceeding weekend of 10/10 through 10/13 with her going to Austin City Limits while I headed off to Seattle for a guys trip to see the Titans play the Seahawks (more on that trip in my beer blog).
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| Saturday, 10/19/13 - We had a terrific dinner at the awesome Watermark Restaurant in downtown Nashville with Ashlee's cousin Steve and his wife, Jennifer, tonight. |
Monday, September 23, 2013
GOTR = M&S + SA,FL
We celebrated Ashlee's birthday this year with a little road trip down south to St. Augustine, Florida, to catch another stop on the Mumford and Sons Gentlemen of the Road Stopover concert series. We attended this two-day festival last year up in Bristol, TN, (see previous blog entry) and really enjoyed it.
Thursday, Sept. 12 - Happy Birthday, Ashlee!! We started our road trip with our own little one-night stopover in Chattanooga for a birthday dinner at the much-loved-by-us Brewhaus over on the North Shore with several folks including Ashlee's mom, Evelyn, and her twin sister, Paige, who believe it or not was celebrating a birthday as well...small world, isn't it? Thanks to all who came out and joined us for a lovely evening of good food and libations.
.Friday, Sept. 13 - We picked up our friend, Mike, early this morning and began the 7-or-so-hour drive down to St. Augustine. Not a bad trip since it's all interstate and we got through Atlanta without much difficulty. We met up with our old friend, Wayne, who had driven over from Tampa where he had been working all week. We checked into the Hilton Garden Inn across the street from the beach and made a bee-line for the sand and the waves!
| The beach was lovely and the first thing we visited when we arrived in St. Augustine, Florida. |
Saturday, September 14 - The music started at the GOTR around 1 PM, so after a leisurely breakfast and a quick swim (for me and Mike) at the beach, we loaded up on the pre-paid shuttle bus over to the venue at Francis Field near downtown. The shuttle bus turned out to be an excellent choice with quick, comfortable and organized service both coming and going.
We caught a little bit of a few bands throughout the fairly brutal heat of the day (Bear's Den, Those Darlins and The Vaccines) with the big headliners of fun. and, of course, Mumford and Sons to close out the night. As the crowd swelled with the anticipation of the new and popular band fun. scheduled to take the stage just after sunset, an announcement was made that we (the crowd) were definitely gonna have "fun" next...just not the band by the same name. Instead, out walks living legend, John Fogerty, of Creedance Clearwater Revival fame plus a ton of his own great solo work. Wow! Nice replacement!! We sure knew a lot more of his and CCR songs than the one hit fun. has currently! To sweeten the deal even more, the entire Mumford and Sons band joined John after his second song and played the rest of the set with him!! Below is a little snippet of this amazing show and a quite befitting song (performed by Mumford Clearwater Revival, as I like to call them) since it threatened to storm throughout most of the show, but it held off and moved out to sea instead.
Sunday, September 15 - It was already time to head home and after another early morning ocean swim (by just me and Mike again....Ashlee and Wayne are such wimps!) and a fantastic breakfast at the aforementioned Mary's Harbor View Café (definitely worth mentioning again), we hit the road with Wayne heading to the Jacksonville Airport for an afternoon flight back to Nashville and us three back in the car on I-75 North.
Thursday, September 19, 2013
Holy moly! We're in China!! 圣钼!我们是在中国!
Today we embarked on what we feel is our most ambitious trip so far. We are off to the other side of the world for a 10-day visit to China!! Following is a day-by-day, place-by-place account of what turned out to be an amazing journey from start to finish.
Wednesday, August 28 - Nashville to Seattle: Since we have to head west to get to The Far East, we flew out today on a non-stop Southwest Airlines flight to Seattle where we would spend the night before boarding the big plane to Beijing, China. We had the afternoon to enjoy the Jet City and did so very much with a visit to Pritty Boys Pizza for lunch which was delicious, Emerald City Brewing for a few tasty afternoon libations and the grand finale: a evening boat ride and houseboat tour of Lake Union.
| Made famous in the Tom Hanks/Meg Ryan movie, "Sleepless in Seattle" this beautiful floating lake house is just one of dozens of private homes that surround Lake Union. |
Thursday, August 29 - Friday, August 30 - Seattle to Beijing - We boarded our Hainan Airlines flight around 2 PM on Thursday and would fly all night to arrive in Beijing on late Friday afternoon. Kinda trippy, and the really weird thing with this flight was we never flew in darkness. Despite that odd date-line fact, we were able to get some sleep, the food served was pretty good and our coach seats weren't bad for the 12-hour flight. After an "interesting" car-ride transfer from the Beijing airport to downtown (evidently you can use the emergency lane in China for passing), we arrived at the nice Dong Fang Hotel where we checked in and just basically crashed for the rest of the evening.
| Our first glimpse of China was dazzling with the crinkled mountains in the northeast of the country in shimmering green. |
Saturday, August 31 - A Day in Beijing - After a good night's sleep and a hearty complimentary breakfast that included "breakfast bowels" (i.e. sausage). We were somehow able to get on Facebook (we read that we would not be able to in China) and a picture of the sausage tray with it's interesting "description" on my timeline brought howls of laughter and pangs of disgust from several folks back home. Yep, this was going to be a fun and interesting trip. After breakfast and with a free day in Beijing before our official tour of China started, we were picked up for a day-tour of the city with three stops that weren't on the list of places we would visit with our main tour: the Giant Panda Garden at the Bejing Zoo, the Summer Palace and the Lama Temple. All three places, plus lunch across from the famous "Bird's Nest" Olympic Stadium were great. Our guide, Jason (bet that's not his real name since he's a native), was excellent and easy to understand.
| This great zoomed-in shot was taken by Ashlee of two of the Beijing Zoo's most popular residents, giant pandas, noshing on some morning bamboo. |
Michael - our guide - his real name is Huang Hai Tao and he couldn't have been nicer, more helpful, more patient and honest about our trip, his country and the overall experience.
Bob - a very successful businessman from Toronto
Kevin - Bob's son, and a charismatic and funny guy
Richard - an always-smiling, globe-hopping Brit who most recently worked on oil rigs in Russia and was heading to North (yes, North) Korea for his next adventure after this. EDITOR'S NOTE: He made it out fine and enjoyed the trip. Whew!
Olly - a young, friendly Aussie businessman who was squeezing a visit to China in between international business meetings
Katharina - a young college graduate from Austria who had never left Europe and was now continuing her studies in China after this trip
Joe - a witty and intelligent Brit who loves adventure and hasn't met a dark, dingy alley yet he won't explore
Natalie - a young British medical student with Indian heritage and a bubbly personality
Usha - Natalie's mom, a recent widow and a warm, sincere and classy lady
Thanks to all these new friends for making our entire trip even better than expected!
Sunday, September 1 - Beijing to The Great Wall of China - Our "official" tour with G Adventures started off with a bang as the ten of us loaded up in a small tour bus and headed for The Great Wall of China, the first place on the agenda to visit. BUCKET LIST GO BOOM! Wow! What an amazing thing to see in person. Pictures will NEVER do it justice and we feel privileged and fortunate to have seen and experienced at least a small part of it in our lifetime.
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| Our guides for the next 10 days in China. They were excellent and we hope to use them again. |
| Pagodas near and far in The Forbidden City. |
Tuesday, Sept. 3 - Xi'an to the Terra Cotta Army and Back Again
The wall around the city of Xi'an is impressive and in immaculate shape. The city is busy and full of students since there are several universities here. Unfortunately, we encountered the worst smog around this area than anywhere else. We were expecting more in Beijing which has been suffering from some of the worst air pollution on the planet in the last decade, but it wasn't too bad while we were there. The smog in Xi'an was somewhat depressing and definitely altered one's view (literally and figuratively) of this obviously impressive city focused on history, culture and art.
After lunch we loaded up on a tour bus and trekked out to see country's "newest" ancient tourist attraction, the life-sized Terracotta Army that was buried with the first emperor of China dating back to 209 B.C. Re-discovered back in the 1970's, it has become an incredibly important archaeological site in China as well as a hugely-popular tourist destination.
| Only 6 of the of estimated 8,000 life-sized clay army were found intact. All others were smashed by a preceding dynasty to insure the first emperor would not return from the afterlife with his army. |
| one of the intact "survivors" |
| Jig-saw puzzle masters at work on site. |
| Coming back to life. The army is being painstakingly reassembled and the site of them standing in rank and file in their original location under a giant airplane hangar is quite breathtaking. |
Weds., Sept. 4 - Xi'an to Hangzhou - This morning we took a short flight (on Hainan Airlines again) due east toward the coast to the larger city of Hangzhou (8 million+). The city's most distinctive feature is West Lake, a huge half-natural, half man-made body of water the embodies peacefulness and tranquility. It recently became a UNESCO World Heritage Site.
| We took a private cruise on West Lake with a nice view of the Hangzhou skyline in the distance. |
| Like most things in China, even the koi pond at West Lake is BIG. |
| No tea bags here! |
Thursday, Sept, 5 - Hangzhou - Wuzhen - Shanghai - We had about a four-hour drive (with traffic) from Hangzhou to our last destination, Shanghai. On the way to break up the drive, we stopped in Wuzhen for a couple of hours. Wuzhen is a "water town" and is known as the "Venice of the East." Having been to the actual Venice and ranking it as still THE BEST place we have ever visited, I would beg to differ on this comparison. Nonetheless, it was a charming little town with a ton of cool exhibits and shops and a place we could have easily spent a whole day exploring instead of such a short period of time.
| A little rain doesn't matter in a water town like Wuzhen. |
| Oh, the shopping you can do in Shanghai and at 16 cents to one Chinese Yuan, there are bargains galore! |
Saturday, Sept. 7 - Shanghai - San Francisco - Denver - Nashville - HOME!
The package flight deal we bought on Orbitz.com was a good deal, but it meant we would be flying a different airline back to the U.S. That direct flight to San Francisco clocked in at just over 10 hours and was handled quite nicely by China Eastern Airlines. Just like going over on Hainan Airlines, the food was decent, the coach seats were comfy (and a bit roomier even) and the entertainment system was top notch (tons of movies and TV shows to choose from - so many in fact, neither of us slept coming back which was probably a mistake in terms of some jet lag when we got home). We had a fairly long layover in San Francisco and couldn't help ourselves not to take a kinda expensive round-trip cab ride downtown to grab a burger in one of our favorite cities in the U.S.. We connected back home on Frontier Airlines with a quick stop in Denver and were home by 11 P.M., exhausted but happy that we had just completed an amazing journey to an awe-inspiring place with some of the nicest people in and from around the world (literally). And, we would be able sleep in our own bed tonight (and all day tomorrow!!).
| Hey, that's The Golden Gate Bridge and Alcatraz. We're home! (kind of). |
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